A woman who has dated 50 men revealed there’s one type of guy who gives her the ‘ick’, despite admitting she is a ‘hypocrite’.
The dating scene can be a real minefield, and bagging yourself a humble, caring, funny, and attractive date often feels like an impossible task.
Well, one woman has tried and tested the dating game to the absolute max, and has revealed there’s one kind of man she just can’t entertain.
After dating 50 men, Tilly, who posts on TikTok as @tillytalkz, knows exactly what she’s looking for in her future man.
Her Hinge dating profile states she looking for an ‘Essex boy’ – specifically Chigwell – a town in the UK. And he needs to work in construction, as she describes her ideal fella as a ‘proper lads lad’.
The woman has admitted she is slightly ‘hypocritical’. (Getty stock images)
Tilly wrote: “I’m a princess, I wanna go shopping.”
She later clarified that dating a ‘rich’ man was her entire ‘plot’.
In one clip, she recalled a date she recently went on – admitting she was 25 minutes late due to getting held up in London traffic.
Despite her date being ‘really nice’, and having a lot of ‘Essex energy’ to go around, she got the ick… and the reason why is quite ironic.
According to Tilly, the bloke was far too ‘flashy’, and the amount he spoke about money put her right off.
She later admitted she sounded like a hypocrite, after demanding a wealthier man.
But according to Tilly, ‘money talks, wealth whispers’.
She said: “One thing I cannot stand in a man is when he keeps talking about money. If you’re trying to tell me stuff like that to impress me, it’s actually going to do the opposite and I’m gonna run so far in the other direction.
“Be cool, be subtle, be humble.”
She has several dating ‘rules’. (Getty stock images)
Sharing her advice with others looking for their future lover, she added: “If someone cringes you out and it’s just the first date, you should not see them again.”
She noted that the ‘gentleman’ paid for her Uber home, which she valued as a nice gesture.
People in the comments shared their own dating stories, as one wrote: “I’m also doing 50 first dates! It’s taught me soooo much.
“I went on a date recently and it’s changed my mindset on 50/50 and I now LOVE traditional dating. Hereeee for it.”
Another said: “Why do the guys you date have to have money? It’s def not the way to find happiness!”
Tilly responded: “Why would I date someone who’s broke?”
A third person added: “The money for the taxi thing though reminds me of a ‘dad’ like that’s something my dad would have done.”
